Dating two men
I chatted with my friends about it and one of them said, ‘Maybe you could juggle both of them?Just until you can make a decision.’ I thought it sounded ridiculous and I’m not the kind of girl who could have two men at once.And if one of them begins to spend money on you like you are an exclusive girlfriend, start splitting the costs. You are in control here and you control the pace of both relationships.Nothing makes a man madder than finding his girl is seeing another guy and his wallet was thrown out the window. No counseling or psychotherapy advice: The Site does not provide psychotherapy advice.The Site is intended only for use by consumers in search of general information of interest pertaining to problems people may face as individuals and in relationships and related topics.
I have met guys who were a letdown but finally came across a really nice and respectful guy. Yes, it’s absolutely OK to date more than one guy at once. You are deciding who to take into your firm in a partnership position, and you better be selective.
I know it sounds like a great problem to have but the big issue for me was that I really liked both of them equally.
The other amazing thing is that they’re both very into me – something I hadn’t experienced in five years!
But I’m in my late 30s now and my decision was made when Tim told me that he would be moving interstate for work but would be back in Melbourne, where I live, every other weekend so he could see his daughter. I thought, I could see Tim every other weekend and for the rest of the time, I could hang out with Mark. If I had to say which guy is better in bed, then I’d say Tim.
It’s working out well so far – it’s only been two months – but I know I can’t deceive them both forever. But my decision isn’t going to be about sex, it’s going to be about chemistry and which of the guys I feel more emotionally connected to.